Slightly Ironic

So i find it slightly ironic that almost everytime something positive in ones life (i.e. mine) something has to change that positive aspect and turn it into a negative one. How a guy can be such a great guy and have all these qualities but yet because a maturity level is too high its not as much fun to be with them... I find this ironic and troubling if that is seriosuly the biggest worry that someone has.